Thursday, July 21, 2011
Speaking Of Baptism...
Pot Pie: "When can I get baptized?"
Knowing that in their church camp and VBS this is something that is discussed a lot, it didn't surprise me that this is what they decided to talk about.
Me: Anytime you want. You just have to proclaim that Jesus is your Lord and Savior and believe it with all your heart.
Pot Pie: And you have to know one thing about Jesus...like....Jesus died for our sins!
Pumpkin Pie: Well...(if you have never heard Pumpkin Pie say well, you must...he drags it out with a little baby Southern drawl. It sounds like "whaaaaale"...it's hilariously precious)... He can touch power lines. That is one thing I know about Jesus.
Me: Well, Nothing is impossible for Jesus...this is true...
Pot Pie: Who will baptize us?
Me: Our Pastor, Deron. You know, Seth's dad. Or Ethan's dad, Brian. He is a pastor.
Pumpkin Pie: (in complete shock) He passed away!?!?!
Me: NO! No, he didn't pass away. He's a PAST-OR! He's the pastor at Center Cross.
This led into an entirely different and much more somber discussion about heaven. I wish I knew all the answers to their questions. Pot Pie wants to go to heaven, but he is very concerned because he knows (barring some tragic accident) we won't all go to heaven at the same time and he doesn't want to be separated from mommy and daddy. I try to reassure him that being separated is something he won't have to worry about for a long time, but his tears brought tears of my own. Praying and searching for guidance are high on the to do list now.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
End of the School Year
Our Cutie Pie... Here he is on the first day of school.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
A Sense (as in 1 of the big 5) of Urgency
However, there is one thing that I feel a much greater sense of urgency about. With Pumpkin Pie entering the world 4 months earlier than expected, we have faced some issues, but nothing compared to what we could have faced, and so I really feel like I have little to complain about with his lot in life. But in reality, there is one thing that is always in the back of my mind. And with a recent visit to the ophthalmologist, it has come screeching to the front of all my other thoughts. Every time Pumpkin Pie goes to visit his eye doctor, his vision is worse. For awhile, we were able to get by on the same lenses, but his most recent visit, after a big growth spurt, showed a significant decrease in his sight.
So, you see, my sense of urgency is over something quite unique. Barring some huge miracle (and believe me, we're praying) or technological advance, my son will be blind almost certainly by the time he reaches adulthood, which raises a few questions for me.
How do I give him life experiences now that will be visually appealing enough to make up for whatever experiences he isn't going to be able to see in the future?
I feel the urge to make a list of places and events, and take him there as soon as I can, no matter the cost. Disney World is at the top. I'm working very hard on making this happen in the next 12 months. I am motivated by the thought of watching his face light up when he sees Mickey Mouse up close for the first time, so no matter what I have to do, I will make this happen. But what after that? He's 5 years old. There are things I can think about that I would like to see, like the Eiffel Tower, the Great Wall of China, New York City, Mount Rushmore, etc, but right now, he probably won't care about any of those things. I want him to look back on his childhood and remember seeing some of the greatest sights in the world.
What is he going to do, professionally?
We won't let him just sit at home. He will attend college. He will get a job. But what job? I have searched the web for careers for people who are blind. There are a lot of customer service type positions. There are heartwarming tales about piano tuners and bicycle repairmen. But there are also accompanying miserable stories, such as being taken advantage of by people who tell you they are giving you five $20 bills when really they are giving you five $1 bills. Because we will make sure he gets a good education, I can only hope that he will be able to do something fulfilling. But what? One job that keeps coming up is lawyer. And of course, I can't think about my son's future career without thinking of him taking a similar career path to that of David Paterson (minus the extramarital affairs) Governor Pumpkin Pie has quite a ring to it. Amiright? Right now he wants to be a fireman, and of course I can't break it to him that he most likely won't be able to do that. He also wants to play football, but he has limited peripheral vision, and if he were to get hit really hard, the possibility that his retina could detach is very high. For now, he is content, and doesn't demand a lot of explanation, but the thought of telling him that he can't do something breaks my heart.
Of course, these questions also lead to more questions, like "who will take care of him when Clint and I are gone?" and "will he ever be able to get married?" I want his life to be as normal as possible. I know I'm getting ahead of myself (I mean, he is only 5), and I shouldn't be thinking about tomorrow because tomorrow is God's and whatever He has in store for us all will be part of His plan. And the more I think about living every moment to the fullest today for fear of what he won't be able to see in the future, the more I think, "Shouldn't we be living like this anyway?" Anything could happen tomorrow. Accidents and freak medical occurrences come out of nowhere all the time. I can't live life as though there's a timer about to expire and I can't be on a quest for the perfect childhood all the time, but I will strive for a happy existence, for myself and Clint and for the boys. I want all of my boys to not feel like they missed out on anything, especially hugs, kisses, laughter, smiles, love, patience, understanding, acceptance, and support.
Thursday, August 05, 2010
Hello Again
Speaking of back to normal, SCHOOL STARTED TODAY! WHOO-HOO! And the moms and dads rejoice. HALLELUJAH!
Here is my biggest boy, CUTIE PIE! He started 3rd grade today. He's looking forward to a year of standardized testing, multiplication tables, and maybe some long division.


Monday, October 12, 2009
March of Dimes Gourmet Gala and Chef's Auction



Everything we tasted was FANTASTIC! We started on one side and just worked our way around. The first table we came to was from a couple of guys from Oscar's Gastropub.

Next we were on to the dish prepared by the Chef Chair, Michael Fusco.




Thursday, September 03, 2009
New Fund the Mission Video for the March of Dimes
Friday, August 21, 2009
Extracurriculars
This is a video from his last summer dance class...
And speaking of extracurricular activities...for 2 years now, Pot Pie has been taking gymnastics (except for the six months he had to take off when he broke his arm...) He is determined to start competing so that he can win trophies, and he has already informed us that one day he will be at the Olympics. I don't know where the summer Olympics is going to be in 2020 (Wikipedia says a local group is trying to get it set right here in T-Town!), but, whatever city it is in better watch out! Team USA has Pot Pie, and he's going to wipe the mat with them!
Okay, maybe I'm getting a little ahead of myself...
This is a video of him on the parallel bars, which currently is his favorite in class. However, last week he started private lessons with his coach, so in December he'll start competing, and he's already decided he wants to master the rings.
Now we just have to figure out what activity can keep Pumpkin Pie's interest...we're thinking along the lines of another dance class...perhaps tap and ballet? He loves to dance, but he mainly only seems interested in contemporary dance, and nobody offers that for 4 year olds...
Friday, August 14, 2009
Back to School


The boys all enjoy going to school, and thankfully they have teachers that we already know and love. We're looking forward to a FANTABULOUS year!!!!

Monday, May 18, 2009
Rescue Mission

Beau was playing with his Batman on the top of the truck when suddenly, it slipped out of his hands, in between the truck bed and the back window. Batman did not fall through to the bottom. He appeared to be lost forever.



Saturday, April 25, 2009
March for Babies 2009
Thank you to everyone who supported our team this year. It was so much fun for Jack to be the face for the March for Babies and their fight against prematurity. We are so blessed and hope that one day no baby will have to face the fight that Jackson had to overcome. Your support for the March of Dimes doesn't have to end here. Donations can be accepted throughout the entire year and there will be other events as well. Thank you to Kara for taking these awesome pictures today!
We were so lucky to have the outcome we did with Jackson, but unfortunately, not all families can say the same. Please take the time to read on Maddie Spohr, a precious little girl who fought to survive but lost her battle. Please pray for her family as they adjust to being without her.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Fund the Mission
Below is our fundraising video for the March of Dimes. We are the Ambassador family for 2009 for Tulsa, and we are so excited about working with everyone to raise money for this cause which is so near to our hearts. Let me know what you think!
Monday, December 29, 2008
Best. Toy. Ever.

Monday, November 17, 2008
Broken Beau, 'Round the Table, and Family Dominoes



Saturday, October 25, 2008
Boo HAHA

Beau and Jack were also super cute today, even though I can't take credit for their costumes besides finding the Transformer online and the Dinosaur (yes, I know its really a dragon...just don't tell Jack) on sale at Old Navy.


After BooHAHA, Beau attended his first classmate party! His friend, Victoria, had an awesome Halloween Party at her house, and Beau obviously likes her a lot. They were attached at the hip most of the party, either jumping in the Jupiter Jump or playing in the backyard. It was so cute to watch them! I had a blast meeting his friends and their parents. Beau is already talking about his 5th birthday party and inviting all of his friends. Too much fun! Here's Jack wearing one of Beau's party favors...

Saturday, October 18, 2008
The Birds and Bees (Preschool Version)
Luke: Did Aunt Kalee get married?
Me: No...(dreading the next question)
Luke: Then how did she get pregnant?
Me: Uhhh...(thinking fast) Well...hmm...(look at Clint, who just smiles and shakes his head, then I give up) She just did, sweetie...(Praying he'll drop it and ask me anything else!!!)
Luke: What is her name?
Me: (Thank you, God!) Her name is Dallie.
Beau: I've never heard that name before.
Luke: When is her birthday?
Me: Today!
Luke: Today? Why is today her birthday?
Me: Because this is the day she was birthed.
Luke: Birthed? (Sounds like Burfed)
Beau: Barfed?
Me: Yes, Aunt Kalee gave birth to her today.
Beau: Aunt Kalee barfed her?!?!? GROSS!!!
Jackson: Ew, YUCK!
Nevertheless, it was a fun trip, and here are some pics of my new niece. The first one is of my future sister-in-law, Andrea, holding the baby. The second one is of Luke looking at the baby as Kalee's future mother-in-law holds the baby, with my little sister Diamond next to her. The last picture is of Dallie. She looks just like our cousin Chelsea, who is the daughter of Aunt Billie Jean and everyone always says Kalee looks like she could be Aunt BJ's daughter!



Tuesday, September 02, 2008
Big Boy Glasses, Part 2

Tuesday, August 19, 2008
1st Grade Watermelon Night

These two have been team teachers for 10 years now! They are so incredibly cheerful and obviously very driven to see their students succeed. Luke enjoys going to school so much and he loves coming home to do his homework every night. I know this won't last forever, but its nice now!
We also played at the park for awhile during the event. Jack is becoming much more adventurous...
The kids all had a blast! Tomorrow night, Beau's Pre-K Family Picnic!
Monday, August 18, 2008
Differences
For example, every Friday is Popcorn Day at the kids' school. For 50 cents, the kids can purchase a bag of popcorn. Luke happened to have enough change in his pocket to buy a bag, while Beau's teacher had forgotten to tell the kids about Popcorn Day and kindly purchased a bag for each of the students in her class. Luke quickly tore into this bag, while Beau held onto his until he got home. Upon arrival, he grabbed Jackson's hand and said "Come on, Jack. Wanna eat some popcorn?" And they walked into the kitchen together, to share a snack and enjoy some time together. It was absolutely the cutest thing ever and I actually teared up a little when Clint was telling me about it. Luke definitely has his moments of kindness, but Beau is significantly more compassionate towards others, and is quick to offer an encouraging word, especially to Jackson. They have a very close bond...I'm assuming because there are only 15 months between the two of them.
Beau is also pretty shy except around people he knows, and every morning, Luke offers to walk him into the school building, but Beau isn't quite ready for that, so I have walked him into the gym every morning to meet his class. And I don't mind...I actually prefer seeing that he made it to his teacher. With Luke, however, we have finally reached the point in our relationship where he doesn't want anyone to know I exist. The minute I pull the van into the parking lot, he hops out, yells "Bye!" and runs off to join his class. When Beau, Jackson, and I enter the gym, Luke basically ignores me, only acknowleding my presence with a glance out of the corner of his eye. I'm okay with it...sort of...I don't want to embarrass him and I'm glad he's becoming independent...but I do miss the days when he wanted to hold my hand and needed a hug to start the day.
Another difference is their clothing. Luke will wear whatever I say looks good, which, while I know will be shortlived, is a blessing every day that I don't have to fight with him about what he's going to wear. Beau, however, refuses to wear anything I pick out for him. He has to pick out his own clothes, and no matter what, the shorts have to be "slippery". He tells me every morning, "Where are my slippery shorts? I only want to wear slippery shorts." When I tell him that he should just wear what I pick out for him, he says his new favorite phrase, which is "I never get to wear slippery shorts." Its ridiculous!
Jackson, however, is a whole other ball game. He's having a very hard time with the fact that he goes to school by himself while Luke and Beau go to school together. And we have reached a point where everything hurts his feelings. EVERYTHING! Its so bad that I'm concerned about his over-sensitivity. Its hard for other people to realize, because even though he doesn't communicate well, he can understand everything that's said to him. For example, this morning, when I dropped him off at school, he was proudly wearing a bracelet that he had made at church last night. He went to show one of his friends, who quietly stated "You're not my buddy." Jackson's teacher immediately got onto the other child, but not before Jackson was pouting, with his bottom lip sticking out and his head turned down to the floor. When we tried to comfort him, he pushed us away and laid down on the floor, face down, crying into the carpet. Because he can't (won't) talk to us, he has no way of communicating to us how he's feeling besides crying, screaming, and pushing. Its unbelievably frustrating, and we often get the same reaction when we get onto him when he gets in trouble. Its so hard to know what to do sometimes, or even how to handle it. Most often, he ends up crying in his bed and he won't leave his room. He refuses any comfort at all and it breaks my heart to see him that way.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
I'm baaaack...

and since then I have been trying to get things back in order around the house, in anticipation of the boys' new school year. Luke will be starting the first grade, and Beau will start Pre-K. I'm excited about what this year will bring, but I was also a little worried about staying on top of everything, so I have instituted a new daily family schedule. Here it is...

Its worked well for us so far...and we're enjoying spending the extra time with the kids helping them with reading and writing. This time usually extends far into the free time that we have scheduled afterwards. I'm hoping we can continue this schedule and help the kids everyday with what they will be learning at school. I know Luke is finally going to start having homework, so it will be fun to watch him learn and help him along as much as we can. I know we are in for a busy school year, but at least it will just be the kids learning this time....
Now Jackson is my only child in daycare. Whoo-Hoo!!! I don't know what I'll do with all the extra moo-lah...oh yeah, pay for glasses. Jackson loves to wear glasses...any glasses he can find...when he finds a different pair of glasses, he takes his off and leaves them wherever. Hence, we are now having to pay for the temporary glasses he was given by the optical shop as well as for the glasses that we had ordered. I would be infuriated, if he wasn't so gosh darn cute!!!

Some of my favorite summer quotes:

"Allright guys, I've got good news and bad news. The good news is we've got pizza. The bad news is there's bad guys in there!" - Beau, while playing Transformers with Luke
"This is a drawing of me. This one is of God, doing the robot!" - Luke after Gathering Kids at church